"Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live."

-- Oscar Wilde

"The dichotomy between selfishness and unselfishness disappears altogether in healthy people because in principle each act is both selfish and unselfish."

-- Abraham Maslow

"Grief is so selfish."

-- Mary Elizabeth Braddon

"The more self-centered and selfish we are, the less we see."

-- Taizan Maezumi Roshi